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'Idol'-izing Super Sherman


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So much for that whole debate over whether or not "American Idol" is too mean this year. I spent the morning hanging out with Idol's sweetest reject story ever, the lovely Sherman Pore. As soon as my producing pal, Celeste, and I watched the show and saw his story about coming to the auditions (armed with a petition) to sing for his lady friend who had just passed from cancer, we knew we had to get Sherman on Access Hollywood. After several phone calls late last night, we were able to track him down. This morning (after a bit of in-fighting between another entertainment show) we finally worked it out for a car to pick up Sherman and bring him to Access Hollywood.

His interview on our stage, with Billy Bush, was scheduled for 10:30am and Sherman (who actually goes by his first name, Howard) arrived about 30 minutes early. Celeste and I bought him breakfast and then sat with him in our commissary chatting. Poor Sherman was completely overwhelmed. Everyone wants him today. Media outlets were calling left and right and his cell phone battery was dying. Poor guy had left his charger in a bag at the last interview he had done earlier that morning. I let him use my phone to call into his messages and he wasn't kidding. When I dialed into his voicemail (he couldn't see the numbers on my blackberry) it told me his mailbox was completely full.

"Pore" Sherman never in a million years thought his auditioning for "American Idol" would snowball into this. He truly just wanted to honor the commitment he made to his lady friend, Melissa Miller, who passed away two days before the audition from cancer at the young age of just 54. They met in a local production of South Pacific in Encino, California, "I slid up along side her one day, she was looking really cute and I just gave her one of these throaty, wolfy growls and she smiled at me and we started going from there." They had been together twenty years.

With tears in his eyes Sherman relayed the story of how they hatched the plan for him to audition for "American Idol." After being diagnosed, Melissa was given three to five months to live, "She and I had this Lance Armstrong philosophy. We were going to outdo it. We were very optimistic and I thought the best way to keep the optimism going was to keep on singing the love songs that I had sang to her on the way home from work everyday. Every night on the way home I would be coming down the hallway of that hospital singing to her and trying to carry some of that brightness to her."

One night they were watching "American Idol." "She has been telling me for years to do something with the singing. She has been prodding me and encouraging me. Finally, when she got into the hospital I thought we need something positive so I am going to do something that all along I have been promising to do. So, she and I read this article in the paper about "American Idol" was going to audition in August and that was three weeks away so she and I cooked up this plan for this audition."

After standing in line for six hours he finally got up to the front of the line. "When I got up there, they were ready for me and they said 'Hey for you this one time, one time only - our limit is 28 but we are going to let you try it.'"

Melissa, whose father Marvin Miller was a famous voiceover artist who narrated Disney's "Sleeping Beauty," passed away just a few days before Sherman was to audition in front of Simon, Randy, Paula and Olivia Newton- John, "She passed away around 11:00 on Friday morning and for the next day and a half I was sitting around the apartment dumping several buckets of tears. I don't know what I was looking for but I was looking up in our bookcases and all of a sudden I spotted some cards that she and I had exchanged over the years. Each time I would pull a card out there was another thing she had written to me that to me was a message from her and she said 'Stop your crying, get off your tail and go out and do what you promised.' So, on Sunday morning I was there. I knew she was in the room with me. I was sure of it."

Needless to say at this point in the interview, with Billy, most everyone on our stage and in the control room was in tears. Things got weepier when Sherman sang us the same song he did on Idol and broke down half way through. This guys got a huge heart and I'd pick hanging out talking to Sherman any day over interviewing a spoiled celebrity. My favorite moment was when I asked him what he did for work. He told me right now he fixes furnaces and does electrical work but said that back in the seventies and eighties he designed the machine that made the mold for seamless bras, "If you are wearing a seamless bra, I probably had my hand in it."

A sweet man with a big heart and a great sense of humor to boot! The ladies will surely be lined up around the corner should he be ready to date again. Billy definitely was thinking what I was when he asked if Sherman would be able to love again, "Yeah, I can love but there is always going to be a big place for her. Always. Yeah, but I think it's because she wants me to because that's the kind of person she was."

8 Comments

Lingga said:

It's very moving story. Sherman, you're the MAN!

Nina said:

I was so moved by Sherman and how much he loved his wife. I think American Idol should invite him back to the finale and let him sing the entire song. I would much rather watch him sing,then bring back one of the goofballs from the auditions!

Ruth said:

What a beautiful voice and story!
This man is an American idol, and if there is a person that was not moved by either or both then they are heartless.

J. Robbins said:

Right after the show aired I created a petition to have Sherman come back on the Season Six Finale to sing his song again and fulfill his promise to Melissa.I am trying to get as many signatures as possible and forward it to American Idol producers. The petition has been mentioned in the media but with no information on where to go and sign the petition on the internet. I would like to post the petition link so it can give an opportunity for people to sign it. I am trying to get as many signatures as possible and am trying to post this everywhere I can. I would appreciate your help it I can post the link here...Thank you so much!!!
http://www.petitiononline.com/flowbee/petition.html

Ano Nymious said:

Nina: Who said she was his wife? I don't think Sherman was married.

Bella said:

It hardly matters if she was his wife or not, but that he honored their love.

bjd said:

When I saw Sherman, I thought something was different....then he started singing. He has the voice of an angel. I'd buy his cd and I'd so love for him to be invited back to Idol. What a sweet man!

Kaylee said:

I would love to say sherman on the show again he is a very nice and sweet man

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