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Clues To The 'Bachelorette' Finale
So, the other day I gave you clue number one as to why I think “The Bachelorette” DeAnna Pappas will chose 26-year-old snowboarder, Jesse Csinscak over 31-year-old single daddy Jason Mesnick.
I mentioned a conversation we had at the “Men Tell All” taping where she said she and her chosen guy would commute between both their residences. I don’t see a single dad with shared custody being able to move back and forth between cities.
Yesterday, I got more clues from DeAnna during a conference call with reporters. Here are some more reasons why I think she will choose Jesse...
Clue number two and I think it’s the most important -- DeAnna has always maintained throughout the show that she is looking for someone who will put her first above everything else. When she was questioned about what she liked best about the remaining two men she said those very words about Jesse.
“Jesse’s that crazy snowboarding, long-haired kid on night one. I was wide-eyed when he got out of the limo because he was wearing that crazy jacket,” she said .“But once you get past everything crazy, he is actually a wonderful human being. He has a big heart. He’s caring. He comes from a great family… and he puts me first.”
Ding Ding Ding Ding. I think we have a winner. Clearly it’s Jesse.
Clue number three -- when questioned about where she fell in Jason’s life considering he has his 3-year-old son she admitted, “That’s the most important thing in his life.”
Clue number four (and this is based on my own personal opinion) -- DeAnna says when it comes to her wedding, it’s only going to be one thing -- big.
“I have a huge family, there’s no way I could cut down my list. We’ve already thought about it and it just ridiculous,” she said.
Jason has been married before and done the big, traditional wedding. I don’t see him wanting to do this for a second time.
Which leads me to clue number five (again based on opinion) -- DeAnna says she and her chosen guy are definitely thinking about having their wedding on TV.
“We haven’t put a lot of thought into it, but we both know we have a lot of fans behind us. There are a lot of people that have followed me since my season with Brad and I know that there are a lot of followers and supporters that would like to see that happy ending. I’m not really opposed to letting those fans into that part of my life,” DeAnna said.
Is it just me or does DeAnna seem a little bit full of herself? I don’t know Jason, I’ve never met Jason but I would find it hard to believe he would be thinking about how he wants to please his “fans.” Jesse on the other hand is a pro snowboarder and is used to being in front of lots of people and I’m pretty sure would welcome the publicity.
I have to finish this up by saying something I say every single season. I’ll never understand on this show how you can take a humongous leap like getting engaged to someone when you had very serious feelings for someone else. If you are going to marry someone, shouldn’t you be 100 percent in love with them and them alone? When I posed this question to DeAnna, an ABC rep came on and cautioned her about her answer.
All she would say is, “How are you supposed to look at someone and tell them that you care about them so much but you can’t choose them because you care about the other guy more?”
Well. Exactly. This is why the relationships on this show almost always blow up. DeAnna makes her choice on Monday night and then we will see how long it lasts. I’ll bet any amount of money that within a week or so we will be hearing about the breakup of Matt Grant and Shayne Llamas from last season’s “Bachelor.” I’m sure they are being begged to stay together until the results of DeAnna’s show are done.
Why do I still watch this show. Somebody please please please stop me!
I can agree with many of these points considering I watch every episode and know the lines- pretty pathedic actually! I totally agree with you on the fact that Deanna is full of herself! She has numeressly refered to society as "the fans"! Well hate to break it to ya, but we aren't fans of you, we're "fans" of the show!! Personally, I love the show, but Deanna, expects so much out of the men! She is constantly breaking down and making seens over the guys reactions, get over it, that's who they are and don't try to change them to fit your "deanna's a princess" mold, just because you think that graham is hot! Doesn't anyone agree?? She is a brat! She bosses them all around like slaves and that's not going to stop after the show! It's only going to get worse! She clearly doesn't even care that much about the guy aslong as they cater 100% to her- because she was always completely convinced that she could find a husband in those 20 people. She's desperate and selfish! Deanna, you don't have fans, yes The SHOW'S fans would love to see your wedding on t.v., but you're being so un reasonable of what you want out of these guys. Just let them be themselves, and be willing to make sacrifices!
I'm still trying to figure out why I watch this thing
I think all are very valid points. However there is one other person that always put her first and was completley selfish with wanting her all to himself and also lives in a seperate location and also has a larger than life fan base......(isn't it odd that Graham has gotten so much hype).....isn't it odd that that is his voice on the preview him walking down the steps him telling her she's making a big mistake.....What's to stop the Whiner as I call her from doing the exact same thing that happened to her last season and choosing Graham completley aside from the show......???? All I know is that I adore Graham and I think he is way to good for her....
From day one, I said the final 3 would be Jeremy, Graham, and Jason - in that order. I didn't see Jesse in the picture after the first couple of weeks. DeAnna's choices have totally floored me. She said herself that Jeremy is the "total package." He was there for her and her alone. Jesse's cool, but in a buddy kind of way. I just can't see this working in the long term.
Well, if Jason does not win i will be writing him. I found his address, as well as Jesse's and Jeremy's....
Nice....
I've only watched 2 seasons of the bachelorette. Tristas season and now DeAnnas. I picked up watching the show from the final 8 both times and I had my guy chosen that night. I said Ryan when Trista was it and I'm calling Jesse this time around.
I think he has a lot to offer DeAnna, in a interview Graham was caught saying that a lot of things she's said about Jesse has been edited out. Most likely to stop you from always thinking he had the advantage. I think everybody favors Jason because she's said more about how much she adores him. HELLO ABC Editing comes into play here.
We'll see tonight but I think Jesse is the final guy
I LOVE this show!!! I was heart broken right along side DeAnna last year, but truth be told, I really wanted Brad to pick Jennie. I really like DeAnna though. I was so excited that Ellen was able to lay the ground work in getting her to be the Bachelorette; however, I have also been floored by her choices. I don't get why she kept Twilley around as long as she did (ZERO chemistry between the two). I also don't get the whole Graham thing. He clearly just wasn't that in to her. I have always liked Jason from Day 1 so I'm glad he's in the final 2. I, too, am thinking she is going to pick Jesse. This is just my opinion, but as you can see when you see the commercials for the finale episode, they keep showing Jason getting out of the car first...Jason going down on one knee first to propose. AND as we all know, whoever comes out of the limo first GOES HOME!! This could just be the producers trying to trick us, but we'll see. Enjoy the show...I can't wait to see if we are right or not. :)
The way that DeAnna hyped Jeremy up made it seem like the show was over WEEKS ago......now that he's gone, my only theory is that Jeremy was er....lacking in some way. You know, after the "overnight" dates if you catch my drift? It's really the only explanation. Anywho, I almost hope she picks Jesse because Jason seems so great-don't want to see him and Ty messed up because of some big-toothed weirdo!
Okay, I have been thinking about his all day long.....why is Jeremy (whom I adore and thought should be her love) RETURNING tonight? That is so odd. Is it possible, that she rejects BOTH Jesse and Jason as she realized Jeremy will fight for her love and she should not have let him go??? Did she ask him to return? I can't imagine why he would ask to see her again as the tension would be awful for them both and I just don't see him as the clinging, begging kind. I felt he carried himself with dignity through all the crap that was thrown at him. Other than these reasons, the only other explaination I can come up with is that JEREMY is the next batchelor and the producers as well as the camera just love him. They are priming his announcement as the new guy on the market.
If this is the case, Jeremy should get his screen actors guild card as he a natural. I see him as the next correspondent on Access Hollywood:)
she is very full of herself and if she had a brain she would've kept Graham but she was too scared he would dump her - they have undeniable chemistry - and if you're willing to work at it - that's all you need. Believe me,
I've been married 23 years.
Does anyone know how long they actually spend together before the finale??
Oh please, please, please, will someone let poor Jason be the next Bachelor! This poor guy more than deserves to be happy and in love again.
donna how did u find jasons address from the bacherlotte show as i CANT find and have been trying to find his address
get back to me
i need jasons address to write to him as deanna is making the wrong decisioson if anyone has his address let me know as i want it or want to know where i can get it
I have never watched the shows- and after she did exactly what she said she hated in Brad- I will never watch again. The editors should be ashamed of themselves as much as Deanna- you can't play with people that way. Let's leave the reality to the wipeout contestents!
I AGREE, WITH THE FIRST opinion. She thinks she is all that. And, a. she is not that smart, and b, I agree with the second or third person, sorry Id idn't read all of them. But, basically, she was not fair to the man, appreciate them for who they are. What she wants a kiss ass, non manly man. I mean Graham was being like every man I know, a normal guy guy. Not a kiss ass. Jesse would say all the right things, whatever she wanted to hear.
Wow!
After watching last night's show, I give this relationship three months at best. When the cameras are off, the fantastic dates to wonderful places are over, and normal life sets in, she will begin to think about his comment that money doesn't matter as long as I am happy.. Good luck with that one DeAnna. She wants to be a princess.
Anyone notice how Mr "Ridulous" (Jesse's favorite word) looks exactly like Chris - the show host. Except Chris is insanely funny, educated, can speak fluently and has a decent haircut.
As for Jason, sweetie you deserve better - hang in there. You'll find someone that puts you first and that sees the value in a gem like you.
You all need to lighten up... Deanna was great.. she at least let them know she was serious and what she wanted... She is beautiful and confident and for some people including women you think this is threatening. I admire her... A lot is out of her hands and what is scripted. Someone wins , someone loses. I think she has found her soul mate. Give her a break and time will tell.
Of all people, Jessie? He came on the show like a clown. All he needed was a big
water squirting flower in his lapel. Not grown up at all. How do you marry someone based on sweaty palms? He almost threw up in the bushes going to pick out the ring. I don't think she really wants a family as bad as she thinks. If she did, Jessie wouldn't have been chosen. Period.
I just wanted to know if anyone knew....
the contestants on the show (Bachelorette) how long do they get to "know" one another??
i know... I know.. I think its ALL so ridiculous..and YET..i watch it (religiously *sigh)
BUUUT Im always screaming at the TV!? "How can a sane person possibly CHOOSE the person they will MARRY based on a couple of dates" (its a couple of dates right? When most of us normal folks at least speand months even years determining "is THIS the person I want to spend forever with??"
TO make it more of a reality; they should not only MEET the family but spend a day in the life of each other. Like maybe Jesse sits around and smokes the MJ all day..and plays video games on his Xbox (like so many 26 year olds i know)..I mean he's so "real" and likes to have FUN.
Maybe Deana is a real princess.. Maybe she has NO friends.. would a guy want to marry her then??
Im sorry
Im rambling
I hope someone answers my original question...
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i just see jesse as being all about fun and not so much as a husband or even father material like jason, so i am not so sure about her, kids and being a mother... i do think its about all herself!! my heart goes out for jason and ty (i do feel he wa lead on) i hope jeremy and jason find the love they showed back to them as they both derserve!!
not too mention how hot they are..whew!!!!
i also believe she lied to jason when he asked her when she knew and she said that morning bullcrap she stated she waited a long time to tell jesse she loved him
Did anyone notice that Deanna and Jesse were squeezing each others hands when they were sitting on the couch next to Jason in Georgia? When Jason said he was in love with Deanna Jesse squeezed her hand. At that point I think she already made up her mind and Jesse knew about it. When she says goodbye to Jason at the cars Jason goes first- He say to her " Now I know where you get your mojo." She at this point can't wait to get rid of him. She didn't even listen to what he was saying her response was dismissive.
I also think Jeremy was let go because Jesse wanted him out of there. If she brought home the "perfect" lawyer single guy and put him side by side Jesse--- She was afraid her Dad wouldn't like Jesse over Jeremy. Jason on the other hand had a child. Better pairing for Dad's approval. Easier to get by Big Daddy.
Jesse is a better choice for Dianna- Good job. Hope it lasts. Laughter helps.
Just my thoughts.